Why Relationships Drain You

When you find somebody you love… You place your hopes and dreams in them. You hope your relationship stands the test of time… Yet, over time, as you really get to know them… You doubt whether your relationship will last. Then comes the day when you stop being your true self. You start playing a role. You look in the mirror, and you know you are being fake. You put on a smile. But inside, you feel unheard, unseen, unappreciated. You feel valued for what you do… not who you are. You find yourself feeling needy. The problem gnaws at you each day. You feel desperate to connect and feel safe and secure in your relationship.

Failed relationship

Yet, it seems impossible to communicate this to your partner. You worry about it endlessly. Yet, they’re saying there’s no problem. Fights build up that never get resolved. Resentments build. Your partner fails to show up for you… Yet, you ask yourself if you’re the one who’s too much of a burden. Maybe you’re like so many of my clients who give, and give, and give… until they feel exhausted. Yet, you never seem to get your needs met inside your relationship.

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Maybe you find yourself being a doormat… Maybe they get away with murder and they walk all over you… Maybe you simply don’t like some aspect of the way they are treating you,
but you can never get that treatment to stop or change. Does any of this sound familiar? I could go on. What I’m describing to you is an anxious attachment style. If you can relate, then I know that you struggle with relationships. And I can help.

Lonely man

My name is Zalman Nelson. I’m a licensed therapist and relationship expert with
more than 15 years helping couples have happier, healthier relationships.

And I want to show you how easy it can be to radically
transform your relationship in just a few days.

I’ve put together a free guide: Fix Any Relationship With 3 Weekly Meetings.

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